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INSIGHTS:
Our emotions and feelings are the road signs for the journey through our life. We ignore them at our peril. So many of us were never taught to recognize our feelings, in fact because we are troubled by the intensity and the pain of these feelings, we more often turn our back and "wait till it all goes away". Drugs, alcohol, work, gambling, eating, shopping are just a few of the ways we walk away from ourselves. Like being lost in the woods, we end up wandering around in circles and our troubles pop up at every turn.

Our bodies keep score for us.

 

Depression
Anxiety Disorders:
Agoraphobia
Generalized Anxiety Disorder
Panic Disorder
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Sociophobia/Social Anxiety Disorder

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

TRAUMA AND DISSOCIATION:
What is trauma - small t and big T
Complex PTSD
Dissociative Disorders
Ways of dealing with emotional pain


Flashbacks need Grounding Skills

Case Studies


http://www.anna
foundation.org


Web Site Links to Tomkins Affect, adolescent mood disorders,
depression and anxiety disorders

Reference manual for Sociophobia: "Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Univers" by Signe A. Dayhoff published by Effectiveness-Plus Publications 2000 - an excellent resource for social anxiety

Reference for BDD
"Feeling Good About The Way You Look" by Sabine Wilhelm 2006

Reference manual for OCD:
"The OCD workbook" by Bruce Hyman and Cherry Pedrick published by New Harbingerís Publication 2005

Reference manuals for PTSD
"The PTSD workbook" by Mary Beth Williams and Soili Poijula, published by New Harbinger Publications, 2002 - this book does a good job on explaining complex PTSD and dissociation

"Growing beyond Survival" by Elizabeth G. Vermilyea 2000 published by the Sidran Press. Their web site: www.sidran.org is an excellent source re books on trauma and PTSD

The key in any psychotherapy is to learn how to identify and pay attention to our body sensations in order to help us work with our primary feelings and avoid the secondary feelings which tend to go round and round and process nothing. If feelings are really overwhelming, such as occur in children who are hurt badly with no one to turn to for comfort, the feelings are often ‘dissociated’, repressed, not expressed, and become hard to contact. And yet the primary emotions are essential for helping us to ‘process’ events which have hurt us in our past - both recent as well as distant past. Learning to process feelings helps put painful past events truly in the past where they can serve as lessons from which we are given gifts, rather than nightmares.


DEPRESSION
What is depression?
Depression is a clinical diagnosis which consists of at least FIVE out of the following NINE criteria. It must include one of the first two symptoms which must last
at least over a 2 week period.

1. Depressed mood

2. Interest - a lack of interest in doing the usual activities the person has enjoyed in the past.

3. Sleep - either too much or not enough

4. Feelings of worthlessness or excessive or inappropriate guilt nearly every day (not merely self-reproach or guilt about being sick).

5. Energy - is low

6. Concentration - diminished ability to think or concentrate, or indecisiveness, nearly every day

7. Appetite is depressed or may be elevated - there may have been weight loss or weight gain.

8. Psychomotor activity - by this I mean, speech and movement is very slowed down. On the opposite side some folks are very restless and can’t sit still

9. Suicidal thoughts, sometimes suicidal plans, and a sense of hopelessness.


Severe depression with weight loss and lack of sleep is really best treated initially with medications. Psychotherapy along with medication in the form of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) has been shown to be very effective and helps prevent relapse
.

A CASE STORY
Maria is a 22 year old college student who complains that she has been feeling depressed the last 3 months. She has lost 15 lbs without intending to, her appetite is poor, she is not participating in the team sports she used to enjoy, she is having trouble with her school work because she is both exhausted and cannot seem to read as she used to. She cannot make decisions. This is very unlike her – she has never had problems with depression before. After education re the treatment of depression, she consents to a course of anti-depressant medication and brief (over 3 month period) psychotherapy . She does very well – she takes the medication over the following year to help prevent relapse, learns how to do CBT and is in complete remission.


ANXIETY DISORDERS
ANXIETY consists of the worry and severe panic causing a state of hyperarousal and what I mean by this is that when a person becomes stressed to the max - the heart rate goes up, you breathe more quickly, you may sweat, feel shaky, dizzy and experience a lot of frightening physical symptoms.

There are six major types of anxiety disorders:
1. Agoraphobia
2. Generalized Anxiety Disorder
3. Panic Disorder
4. Social Phobia (or Social Anxiety Disorder)
5. Obsessive-compulsive disorder
6. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

1. AGORAPHOBIA consists of avoidance about being in places or situations from which escape might be difficult (or embarrassing). It typically involves situations where one is outside the home alone and feels trapped or panicked. This deep anxiety creates a barrier to seeking treatment and can lead to complete isolation in one's home, even for years. Typically avoidance makes the anxiety disorder worse - and requires active treatment to overcome it.


2. GENERALIZED ANXIETY DISORDER
happens to the worrier – a person who has difficulty controlling worry and as a result has many physical symptoms, such as ‘I can’t sit still’, easily fatigued, difficulty concentrating or going blank, irritability, muscle tension, sleep disturbance.


3. PANIC DISORDER
– this happens to a person who misinterprets and then catastrophizes the physical symptoms of anxiety, which send the person off to the emergency. He is then advised there is ‘nothing wrong’. This is hard for the person to understand because the symptoms are very real. Panic Disorder symptoms are related to a genetic predisposition that makes the body overreact in this way to stressful situations. It often takes several trips to the local emergency before you and your doctor figure out what is going on. Then the treatment needed may include medication – but much better yet is a form of treatment called Cognitive Behavioural Treatment (CBT). Often it is both.

PANIC DISORDER/CASE STORY:
She had finished everything at home, packed lunch for John and the kids. Dinner prep ready. Running late, as usual en route to work. Tough drive each day - over three hours round trip. First meeting at nine, new client lunch. Car needs service. Two extra kids for dinner and swim team. Suddenly, a bullet of fear, a jangle of nerves, dry mouth, heart racing dizzy, can't see right, short of breath. Judy lurched the car over to the side of the road. A heart attack? A stroke? What's wrong? Can I get to the nearest hospital? I'm stuck here alone. I think I'm going to die.
This was the beginning of a long road for Judy. She began to fear driving. She left her job. Tried to find one close to home. She avoided the car, feared repeat incidents. Her established patterns fell apart as she tried to understand what was happening to her.
Panic disorder is part of our biochemistry. Some people are extra-sensitive to life stressors. They are biochemically keyed up when life's demands go too far. They will misinterpret and catastrophize panic symptoms, which in turn make the symptoms more fearful, and leave Judy, and many men and women who suffer this way, extraordinarily vulnerable.
After three months of medication and ongoing cognitive behavioural therapy, Judy is coming to grips with her stresses. She has restructured her thinking and understands the reasons behind her frightening experiences so that this no longer interferes with her life.


4. SOCIOPHOBIA is the most common anxiety disorder and the third most common disorder after depression and alcoholism This is a form of shyness in which people begin to avoid social interaction or contact with the public because of fear of being judged. For someone with Sociophobia, social situations cause severe anxiety symptoms and so it is understandable that the person would try to avoid these situations. Unfortunately the more the person avoids, the worse the symptoms become. CBT is very effective treatment for this problem – and requires exposure to situations previously avoided to resolve the situation.

Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is very similar to Sociophobia. Here, the focus is on a particular part of the body. BDD can lead to Agoraphobia. Note reference to Sabine Wilhelm's book.

SOCIOPHOBIA/CASE STORY:
Fat ran in her family. Dora was always aware of eyes on her mom and dad and brothers and her. Fat. Ugly. Lazy. That's what those eyes said. She married and had her own children. Being pregnant made it ok to be fat - but this was followed by times of debilitating fatigue. More and more, she wants to stay hidden. Stay in the car. Go shopping when the store might be empty. Die inside if she saw someone she recognized. Over time, she'd avoid picking up the phone or answering the door or making the most basic personal appointments. Social occasions were agonizing. She didn't want to talk to anyone, because in their eyes she knew what they were thinking about her and the humiliation made her feel sick inside. She increasingly felt caged in her own body.


5. OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER is an inherited disorder in which there is a bad circuit in the brain making one think over and over and over thoughts which may be about harming others, about germs and contamination, about keeping order, about worry if you have done things like turn off the stove or lock the door. Because of the fear of the thought becoming action, there is often either a ritual action to avoid the feared thought becoming reality (such as handwashing, or checking, or spending an inordinate amount of time cleaning and organizing or being overly attached/hoarding things) or avoidance of any situation that the person associates with OCC thought. Unfortunately avoidance makes it worse and as a rule professional intervention using CBT is required – although there are readily available manualized versions of treatment as there are for all anxiety disorders.

OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER/CASE STORY:
The good news is that OCD is 85% treatable. Living with OCD is agonizing. Typically, people hide their symptoms, trying to live with them, thinking that "telling" will condemn them to be considered crazy.
Susan's symptoms started following a period of depression. She had continuing thoughts that she might have hurt someone. These fears progressed to murderous thoughts and repetitive dreams of chopping up bodies. Her dreams were like a loop in her brain, that she couldn't get rid of. She was afraid to fall asleep. She started to live her days in fear of acting on these thoughts - that she actually could and would hurt someone - by isolating herself.
Cognitive Behavioural Treatment (CBT), following a set manualized step-by-step therapy, has helped Susan realize that a thought does not necessarily equate with an action. Her dreams and fears are the result of OCD - a faulty electrical circuit in her brain. With medication + CBT, her life is back on track.

6. POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER This disorder occurs about 1/3rd of the time in people who experience a life threatening event - or in the case of children, an event (usually many events) which overwhelm your ability to cope. As a result, whenever you talk about, think about, or are reminded of the event(s) either with an obvious trigger or one related in some way to the original event, you have a flashback. As a result you avoid thinking of the event and avoid situations which might serve to remind you of the event. Your world becomes smaller and smaller. In avoiding the overwhelming emotions that accompany a flashback, you tend to numb all feelings, including pleasurable feelings. As well, there are signs of excess arousal such as a hyper startle reflex, difficulty sleeping, and anxiety. If these events occurred in childhood, the symptoms of hyperarousal can be experienced since childhood.


Big T Trauma. WHAT IS TRAUMA?
Trauma is an event or events that overwhelm your ability to cope. While a ‘traumatic event’ by definition is witnessing or being in a life threatening situation, more recently the definition has broadened to include the situation children find themselves in when they are neglected and abused by those who are supposed to be there to protect them.

TRAUMA/CASE STORY:
It is painful to be in the same space with Vic. Once a loving, kind, and caring man, he became really sick. A lifetime of difficulties, starting from childhood, has left Vic incapable of coping with the demands of his life today.
At a time when his job was challenged, his wife was conducting an affair with a close family friend, his teenagers were in increasing trouble at school and in the neighbourhood, Vic was involved in a four- car crash. Over the months that followed, Vic blamed himself for the accident, though visibility, road conditions and three other drivers were key players in the accident. The accident was the crushing end to Vic's ability to function. He suffered a character structure collapse - becoming the reverse of what he used to be as a person. A man who had always been unflinchingly responsible to work and family, who had been capable and caring in his personal and community life, now believes that he is lazy, unable to do anything right, frightened of sounds, willing to take blame and be blamed for everything that goes wrong. Two years after the accident, his work is over, his wife has abandoned the family, one son is in jail. He sits in a room, hunched in a heap, staring at a spot in the distance, unable to make eye contact.
Slowly, through therapy, he comes to understand that the man he used to be has not just evaporated. He is starting to connect. He remembers to eat, to make and keep personal care appointments. A couple of close friends have helped to draw him out. He is starting to understand the deeper wounds of Post Traumatic Stress, the ones that remain after the bones and cuts of the accident are long healed.

Small ‘t’ traumas, while not life threatening, are often repetitive in childhood and can be not only acts of abuse like verbal, physical and sexual violence either perpetrated on the child or witnessed by the child. Perhaps even more important are acts of omission, neglect of a child's needs- and by this I mean things that are not done and need to be done for optimal care of the child. Often needs of a child by a caretaker can be excellent for one stage of development but poor at another stage. This is type of treatment in childhood is responsible for misinformation about oneself and the world, and is responsible for the quirks in the development of our character/personality structure as we grow up.


Repetitive childhood traumas and neglect are particularly malignant and can lead to a disorder that the experts in the field of trauma call complex PTSD or disorders of extreme stress, as well as Dissociative Disorder, a group of common disorders poorly understood by some mental health workers.


COMPLEX PTSD OR DISORDERS OF EXTREME STRESS

This is a very important new way of looking at what happens to children who have little power in this world and so are particularly at risk for developing this disorder. It is a very common disorder which, to date, has not made it into the Bible of psychiatric diagnosis called the DSM-IV – and it is felt that when it does, it could dramatically change the face of psychiatric diagnosis and facilitate treatment. When these traumas disrupt the normal development tasks of childhood and adolescence there is a disruption in character/personality structure.

Please see these web sites for a complete description of this very important concept, originally developed by Judy Herman. http://www.ncptsd.org/facts/specific/fs_complex_ptsd.html
http://www.caritas.ab.ca/Home/default.htm


DISSOCIATIVE DISORDERS
What is dissociation ?
Dissociation is the ability of the mind to hide a memory, a feeling, or a body sensation for a short or a long time. The mind does this quickly when it feels that what is happening is too much for us to handle. The mind acts like a light switch and turns off all or parts of the event. It also keeps this event apart from other information with which it would usually be joined. Dissociation is a way for the mind to deal with the very hard things of life.

Dissociative are very common disorders which result from repetitive traumas in childhood which are hidden to patients and physicians alike and difficult to diagnose without experience. Without the proper diagnosis, effective treatment may not be possible. Medication is of limited benefit to this group of disorders and hence psychiatrists often do not treat this problem. I use a screening tool called the DES in my practice which asks some questions concerning:
• memory,
• alterations in your perception of the world and yourself (like feeling beside yourself or being an observer of yourself),
• confusion of who you are
• knowledge either directly or from friends and family that you act very differently one time from another – this ‘switching ‘ in state occurs very suddenly at times of increased upsetness and may cause lost time in your day.
• ‘Sneiderian symptoms’ which have been used to diagnose schizophrenia – but are mostly symptoms of a dissociative disorder and not of schizophrenia. These include questions about ‘made thoughts, feelings and actions’ and by this I mean, thoughts and feelings and actions which the person has no idea where they come from.

DISSOCIATIVE DISORDER (DID)/CASE STORY:
Karen switched back and forth between her multiple personalities, literally in the blink of an eye. One part of this young woman was good, nice and self-sacrificing - the sweet girl who always gave in. Another part of her was vicious, aggressive, dangerous. There were also parts that ranged from happy spontaneous child, to a very frightened child. Karen suffered from multiple aspects of self.
Karen had a series of abusive relationships from the time she was in her teens. She was regularly in and out of jail, the last time after repeatedly stabbing her boyfriend in the supermarket, screaming her father's name, as she attacked him, in fact doing what she had wanted to do to her father since she was eight years old. Karen had no memory at all of this period of time.
In DID, aspects of the brain psychologically separate from each other, switch in seconds from one part to another, without transition, a sudden, shocking, confusing change with absolutely no memory of the switch.

Over the year of therapy, Karen would swing in and out of phases, at times accepting and believing the truth of her reality regarding her other aspects of self, then yelling and denying them.
She is getting better. She now has a sense of self that includes and welcomes all parts of self, working together in a cooperative fashion, learning to appreciate the strengths of each part.
Her relationships with people have improved. She is able to stand up for herself. She has worked with many of her troublesome memories so that they are now a part of her story and are not coming as 'flashbacks' (that is having a sudden sense that she is back in time and feeling the trauma as intensely as she did back then). She is feeling some joy in life and a has a sense of moving forward.


To read about DES go to
http://www.rossinst.com/des.htm
to read about the DDIS go to
http://www.rossinst.com/dddquest.htm
to access the Colin A. Ross Institute web page go to
http://www.rossinst.com/index.html


I am proud to say that Colin Ross is a psychiatrist and a Canadian – - who left Winnipeg some years ago (Canada’s loss) and helps manage three trauma institutes in the USA.


SOME MALADAPTIVE WAYS TO DEAL WITH EMOTIONAL PAIN INCLUDE:
1. impulse disorders such a self-harm, cutting, hitting, or burning oneself
2. self-blame which leads to chronic depression and chronic suicidality
3. abuse of drugs and alcohol, gambling and shoplifting to name a few.
4. dissociation which includes:
• Memory gaps - the more traumatizing the event, the more likely an event will be completely forgotten or partially forgotten for a long, long time only to appear later as ‘flashbacks’. ’.
•. altered perceptions of the world – “it seems fuzzy and out of focus”
• altered perceptions of self – “I feel beside myself or I am an observer watching myself”
• switching to another aspect of self
impulse to run, fight, submit or freeze - These 4 impulses are very important concepts for the trauma survivor to understand – as part of the treatment focuses on developing, at a body level, a more adaptable way of your body responding to triggers then passive ones like submit and freeze which lead to re-victimization and re-enactment in relationships with significant others,

WHAT ARE FLASHBACKS?
This is the remembrance of a traumatic event, triggered by a smell, or feel or situation related in some way to the original event, which feels like it is happening right now. The emotional feelings are very intense, the pictures are vivid, the smells and sounds are there (although those around you are not aware of them). The lack of the ability to stay in the here and now is both the problem and the answer in gaining mastery over these overwhelming experiences. With a flashback one is in a state of hyperarousal and the experience of a flashback will therefore only retraumatize. Until you can experience a traumatic event along with a third party during which your level of arousal is maintained at a lower and safer level - the traumatic event will remain unmetabolized and subject to reactivation by triggers in the environment.


HOW TO DEAL WITH FLASHBACKS: It is important if you are alone when you experience a flashback to ground yourself.

What does GROUNDING mean?
GROUNDING is a way to remind yourself that you are here in the present and not there in the past like your brain is fooling you into thinking. Thus you must be very mindful of the things around you when you are experiencing a flashback by doing such things as noticing what is in your surroundings: the sounds, the sights, the smells, the tastes, and the feelings of sensations in your body and impulses to fight, run away or submit and freeze.

To do this I tell my clients to:
1. Look around and say out loud name 5 things you see, then 5 things you hear, notice the smells in your environment, take a drink or suck on a candy or an ice cubes and note 5 things you feel in with your body.

2. Put your feet flat on the floor and feel the floor. Rock on your bottom in your chair.

3. You can put your arms out against a cool wall or floor.

4. Do anything that brings you back to the present. You might carry a card in your pocket with your name, year and other things which you find work to bring you back.

5. It is also helpful to tell close friends or family members how they might help you when you have one. Often they want to touch you and it is important usually to tell them not to touch you as, in a flashback state, you may confuse your friend with the perpetrator. They can talk to you in a soft voice reminding you of where you are, who they are, what year it is, how old you are.


Ideally you would not have any spontaneous flashbacks at all because each flashback is a painful re-occurrence of the original event and only serves to re traumatize like a needle stuck on a record. When a person has complete or partial memory loss of the traumatic events, they will later in life have these very disturbing flashbacks or vivid nightmares and this will often be the time at which the person will seek treatment.

 
Tomkins Affect
This is an important concept needed in therapy by many patients

http://www.affectivetherapy.co.uk/Tomkins_Affect.htm

Screening your adolescent for depression
http://www.adolescent-mood-disorders.com/

Depression
http://www.psycom.net/depression.central.html#contents

DSM-IV diagnosis od moos disorders
http://www.a-silver-lining.org/BPNDepth/criteria_e.html#MajorDepressiveEpisode

Brochures on dissociation and trauma
Including reliable information on PTSD, DID, memory
anxiety disorders

http://www.sidran.org/trauma.html
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/anxietymenu.cfm

Anxiety disorders in adolescents and children
http://www.baltimorepsych.com/anxiety.htm

 

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